Whatever State I’m In

Throughout life I have often come back to the question, ‘if singleness is supposed to be a gift from God, why then, are so many Christians so unhappy with it?’ why is it that we spend so many hours of our lives scrolling through instagram pictures and #relationshipgoals posts? Are we discontent because of our singleness? Or are we just discontent? Continue reading


A Thankful Heart in Singleness

It’s been playing on my mind a lot recently that so many young people within our society whether involved in the church or not are faced with this idea that singleness means having less worth, as if the two were correlated in some way. Somehow within our media and day to day lives we have created this romance ideology in which anyone without a love interest is deemed of less value. This needs to stop. I realise more and more as I scroll through social media how dangerous and damaging this view is, we see young girls hate themselves because they don’t have the gorgeous film-star-looking boyfriend who sends flowers to their door every Friday night. How heart breaking it is to see girls and guys who somehow feel that they have less to offer to the world because of who they are or aren’t dating. Continue reading